Wednesday, November 25, 2009

How can I get my parents to trust me out of the house?! (Details inside)?

Okay, a typical teenager gets to go out to the mall with friends, go to friends' houses, go to parties, go to homecoming, prom, etc. Well get this. I've never done ANY of those. My dad is Arabic and incredibly old-fashioned when it comes to things like this. I have lots of friends but my social life only exists in school or on Myspace! I'm a good girl. I don't mess with drugs, alcohol [I find them digusting] or anything like that. Let alone sex. So why don't they trust me? I've asked them so many times, "Can I go to ____'s house tonight?" And it's always a no. Not we'll think about it, or anything. My mom is more lenient on these things... But anyway. What can I do to get out of this house?! You need a social life/social skills if you wanna survive in the real world!



How can I get my parents to trust me out of the house?! (Details inside)?

You probably can't.



Yes, they're being extreme.



On the other hand, this is about the 10th question saying the same sorts of things about parents not letting their teens go out at all I've seen just today.



So it's not true that all teens get to do all those things.



There's no such thing as "a typical" anyone, let alone a teen.



Yes, I think your parents should lighten up.



Unfortuantely, it's not my call.



As soon as you're 18 you can move out on your own and do whatever you want. I hope the over-control you've experienced so far doesn't lead you to go nuts.



You WILL be 18 some day (probably not long from now), and then you're free.



How can I get my parents to trust me out of the house?! (Details inside)?

im so sorry sweetie but i dont know what to tell you. my parents were like that when i was younger but they kind of grew out of it. they always said it was because i was their last child and they wanted to keep things safe. sure tehres alot of bad stuff in the world but just keep trying to show them that its keeping you away from your friends. make a huge promise that if they let you go out youll do something for them. good luck sweetie.



How can I get my parents to trust me out of the house?! (Details inside)?

you might want to try asking them your question they might think you are a good girl but probably don't want you to get in trouble..... they only want the best for you, it shows that they care.



How can I get my parents to trust me out of the house?! (Details inside)?

WOW!!!!!!! i have the exact same question in mind. Im doing the same thing u r. (except our family is part arab, armenian, and then part hispanic.)



I know exactly how it feels to have a life like that. ur still luckier then i am. they dont even trust me with a myspace.



How can I get my parents to trust me out of the house?! (Details inside)?

that sorta happens to me too. you just have to prove to your parents that your resposible. do you have a younger sibling or younger cousins or other people in the neighbourhood that you can take care of or something? that way you can show your parents that you know how to take care of someone else even, so they should trust you with going out with your friends and taking care of yourself. Or you could get a part-time job and show responsibility there.

No comments:

Post a Comment

 
phone